[Today’s guest post by Clinton Wilcox is part of our paid blogging program.]
Oscar Wilde once said, “Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask and he will tell you the truth.” Wilde, of course, lived in the 19th century, born over a century before the internet was merely a gleam in Al Gore’s eye. However, his statement is just as true now as it was back then. Internet anonymity allows people who would otherwise not be blatantly honest with people to show their true colors without having to look the person they’re denigrating in the eye when they’re saying it.
This article is a follow-up, of sorts, to my previous article about being persuasive in your conversations with pro-choice people. It was actually inspired by the recent tragedy regarding comedy legend Robin Williams taking his own life. It’s bad enough that his family had to go through this situation, but Williams’ daughter Zelda was forced off of social media because internet trolls posted fake pictures regarding her father. Thankfully many people have more sense than this, but if you want a true taste of human nature, just peruse the comments section on any YouTube video or blog article. There have been numerous accounts of teenagers pushed by internet bullies into committing suicide.
This, of course, also happens often in the abortion debate. People who are allegedly pro-life will attack pro-choice people verbally, even going so far as to make death threats against pro-choice people. Now right away, I know there are going to be people who are going to say that “it happens on both sides” (and I know there are going to be people who won’t read the article so they won’t see my prediction before making that statement). And that’s true. But no matter what abortion advocates may do, it doesn’t make it okay for us to do it.
Yes, it’s frustrating when things don’t go our way. We’re fighting an uphill battle against our own government and the multi-billion dollar abortion industry. But if we really have truth on our side, and if we truly want to be persuasive, we have to stop acting as if we don’t really believe our own arguments. If the unborn are human beings (P1), and all human beings are deserving of protection (P2), then the unborn are deserving of protection. This goes for pro-choice people, too. If pro-choice people aren’t deserving of protection, then that invalidates our second premise and leaves the door open for arguing that the unborn don’t deserve protection!
I have already written about being persuasive in our arguments by treating the other person with respect. Another aspect of persuasiveness is to let our actions match our words. If we argue one way and live another, on what grounds should pro-choice people accept our argument? Let’s stop with the rhetoric and the name-calling; let’s stop with the anonymous internet bullying, threats, and intimidation. Yes, let’s stop even if we were on the receiving end of it first. We need to be a movement that can truly be respected, so that when a pro-choice person brings an accusation against us, we can honestly say that there may have been people like that in the past, but you’ll be hard-pressed to find someone like that now.