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“Did I make the right decision?”

March 19, 2025/in Uncategorized, Your Stories /by Monica Snyder

Note: Any time I talk about women suffering after abortion, people assume I’m arguing that their suffering is a reason to outlaw abortion. In fact this isn’t my point. I do think we should outlaw elective abortion–because it kills human beings. But even if we lived in a world where outlawing abortion was impossible, I […]

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“We invited the child’s spirit to revisit Earth another time.”

August 28, 2024/in Miscarriage & Pregnancy Loss, Religion, Uncategorized, Your Stories /by Monica Snyder

The abortion debate is often described as anti-choice people opposing abortion for religious reasons on the one side and pro-choice people supporting abortion for more secular, pluralistic reasons on the other. In reality, the different sides are more complex. Of course, we at Secular Pro-Life often focus on the secular bases for opposing abortion. But […]

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“Aborting my baby.” Women describe their aborted embryos as their children.

August 21, 2024/in Miscarriage & Pregnancy Loss, Uncategorized, Your Stories /by Monica Snyder

Many pro-choicers think of embryos and fetuses as “clumps of cells.” They may mean figuratively (philosophically unimportant biomatter) or literally (spheres of undifferentiated cells). Either way, these pro-choicers often act as if only zealous anti-abortion activists view embryos as human beings. They dismiss the idea that embryos are children as a niche and archaic religious […]

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8 reasons to talk about women who struggle after abortion

August 2, 2024/in Uncategorized /by Monica Snyder

If you or someone you know is struggling after an abortion experience, check out Support After Abortion. When we at Secular Pro-Life talk about the women who emotionally or psychologically struggle with their abortions, our point is not that their struggles are reasons to ban abortion. There are plenty of decisions people may suffer from […]

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Destigmatized abortion increases the pressure to abort

March 20, 2024/in Uncategorized /by Monica Snyder

Most people recognize that stigmatizing abortion increases the cultural pressure for women to carry to term. There’s a flip side to this coin: destigmatizing abortion increases the cultural pressure for women to abort. The idealized abortion decision There’s a theoretical version of women’s decision making processes leading to abortion. I’ve come to think of it […]

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Women say they grieve but don’t regret abortion. Is that a contradiction?

March 3, 2023/in Miscarriage & Pregnancy Loss, Uncategorized /by Monica Snyder

When discussing whether women regret abortion, I think people are using different meanings of the word “regret.” Some mean feeling remorse over an event or wishing it had gone differently. Others mean feeling sorrow or otherwise suffering. The ideas are similar but not identical. The distinction is important when we discuss whether women regret their […]

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How #ShoutYourAbortion Changed My Mind

February 5, 2019/1 Comment/in Uncategorized, Your Stories /by Guest Blogger

I was raised pro-life. My parents were so passionate about the cause, in fact, that when my four brothers and I got old enough to drive, any new car had to be fitted with a pro-life bumper sticker or it wasn’t allowed on their property. All through childhood, I never questioned this idea. It seemed […]

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